Sometimes no equals love, too
I'm going to share a kind of personal spiritual experience here; I hope that's not inappropriate. It has been on my mind lately. We arrived in New Hampshire 26 years ago, four kids in tow, one on the way. John's salary was meager, but he liked his job. We rented a second-floor apartment for about six months, and then moved into a home across town that was owned by the invalid mother of a family friend. Her family needed someone to stay in the house and look after it, but weren't looking to make a profit. Our rent essentially covered the taxes and water bill. We've lived in this house ever since. When we first moved in, it was a mess - needed painting, the roof leaked, there was a ton of construction debris and bric-a-brac in the basement. The windows upstairs had no screens nor latches. There was essentially no insulation in the home. The wiring was all knob and tube. It was a handyman special, if ever there was one, but we weren't ver...