Desperately Seeking - Resilience
When Johnny was going through chemotherapy for leukemia (ALL), I understood for the first time that I had never known desperation in my life. David was a young Latino boy from a working-class family, about eight or nine years old. He was one of eight children. His mother may have worked previous to David's diagnosis, but when I knew of their family, she was either at home with the children, or in the hospital with David. His cancer was a rare kind of tumor, difficult to treat and not responsive to existing protocols. David's father may have been a mechanic; I am not sure, but I knew that his pay was hourly, and it was not the kind of job that offered medical benefits or family medical leave for parents. His dad got paid on the days he went to work, and that was it. When David had to go to the hospital for treatment, one parent had to go with him, meaning that his dad couldn't work - either staying home with the other kids, or going to the hospital with David. When he di...