Sometimes when I’m posting here, I feel smudged in narcissism, which feels only a little less pleasant than being smudged in fudge sauce. I know it’s probably not healthy, but who doesn’t love fudge sauce? In less than one week, John and I will celebrate 30 years of wedded bliss, and the question has come to me from time to time in the past few weeks, why does love stick sometimes, and not other times? Why are we still together when so many wonderful people I know just couldn't stay happy, or stay together . . . or just stay happy together? Sunday is our anniversary, and while we’re happy about that, we can’t tell you how or why it happened. We’ve invested time and energy to keep each other happy, but we have no oracle to share. We met through his roommate, who had a crush on one of my roommates. He felt encouraged enough to call up one Friday evening to invite her to come to his apartment and eat a cake he had just made. The cake had ice cream in the frosting, and needed t...
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Can I change my vote to "cool"?
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ReplyDeleteBUT . . . and I hate to be picky . . . I still can't comment on your excellent writing below. So I will just add that I really liked your "Eulogy" essay. Last week Jen and I took two of our grandkids on a hike--truly a marvelous experience for me! But several funny things happened that support your thesis. I will share two: 1) Jen was showing Gracie the beautiful golden leaves that were started to scatter on the ground; she invited Gracie to pick one up, to examine it closer. Gracie was horrified: "we don't touch leaves . . . squirrels might have peed on them!" 2) Later, we found a very small baby shrew that was dead, right in our pathway. We looked at it carefully, identifying it and connecting its specie to all the holes we had found along our path. Ben, quickly noted: "We won't step on him . . . Jesus doesn't like it when we squish His animals!" SO true . . . to be dead is bad enough, but to then be squished . . . well, that's intolerable. We all laughed, but knew that Ben had taught a great lesson.
ReplyDeleteKids do need nature! It is full of vital lessons and causes us to connect to deity!
Nice break! THANKS!!! Now back to work . . . .